Connections are very important. But not all connections are the same.
I thrive on engaging with other people. I love the feeling of relating, learning and laughing. Those feelings amplify when I’m interacting with others. Well, at least when it’s positive interactions – those are what I’m going to focus on…positive work community connections. I’ve recently realized that I have different connection levels and I want to take some time to explore them and why each level is valuable.
- Forever Friends: The connections that form after an numerous experiences together that formed deep bonds. These are the people that I turn to for advice, comfort, celebration…honestly, for everything. I am so lucky to have developed several of these connections that last well beyond our mutual employment together.
- Admired Advisors: The connections that form after continuously building respect of someone develops into an inspiring source of value. These are the people I turn to for challenges, the hard truths and what’s possible.
- Collaborative Colleagues: The connections that form from working together – in the trenches. These are the people that help me deliver my best work. These are the people that I will have lunch with years later and it will feel like no time has passed and so happy to see and support them.
- Marvelous Mentees: The connections that form from a trusted advisor role. These are the people that I can’t wait to hear about what they are doing, who they are helping, the difference they are making, etc. I have learned that often benefit way more than I think I help(ed) them – so I’m always eager for each opportunity to engage.
- Appreciated Associates: The connections that form from being in similar circles/experiences but not really collaborating with. These are the people that I appreciate their input, contributions and engagement. I don’t necessarily seek them out but always appreciate our interactions when they do occur.
- Acknowledged Acquaintances: The connection from a limited interaction (maybe one introduction, or quick interactions, etc). These are people that I acknowledge and hopefully recognize (although this keeps getting harder and harder for me – with volume of people and my age…lol).
And sometimes, I get lucky and someone fits in several of these categories – these are people that you usually hear me say “I just adore them on every level.”.
What other connection levels should one be engaging?
